Friends with ex's?
Currently, only with one. She's gone through a lot of crap in her life, so I was a bit surprised when she messaged me out of the blue. Neither of us plan on getting back together, as far as I know. It's quite nice to be on good terms with an ex if you can help it.
The rest of my exes can forget it. They don't get to come into my life and selfishly tax me of my energy and caring a second time.
Uahh! It's good you're no longer with them then!
It must also be nice to be able to communicate in a friendly manner with an ex. A friend is still a friend --as long as they're not terrible hahaha. But she doesn't sound it.
Wish you luck!
Aww, thank you! It's going good so far. I did low-key miss her for quite a bit, so it's great to finally be able to talk to her again.
i've only dated ppl in my life, the first one lives far and me lost contact so, meh
the second is a peace of shit loser, thinks he's better than everyone, junky who made my life miserable, i tried to be bc we have a lot of the same "friends", but no couldnt do it... so i started avoiding everyone
and the last one we're ok...ish lol we kind of have to be since we have a kid together, he's not a bad guy
I have an ex fiance that I still get along with pretty well. We have hung out in social settings and have no issues. We are in this weird thing where when our past relationship is brought up we both go "bro" status and just start making jokes . I would still consider him a friend , tho we left on a very mutual conversation. So idk if that is weird or .. I just know that we still get along just fine ,and can joke (without hurting the other person or being malicious) about our past. We just kinda morphed from engaged to bros lol